I am delighted to be able to post another interview post here on my blog with none other than Mistress Ezada Sinn. Mistress Ezada Sinn is a Romanian born lifestyle and Pro Domme now living in Germany and owner of the House of Sinn. I am lucky enough to be able to say I have met Mistress Ezada and it was clear from the first minute she was born for female dominance (I mean she was whipping a sub guy at the time but even so I think you get what i mean!) She is beautiful, creative and just as strict but don’t just take my word for it, it is very clear from Mistress Ezada’s own words:
‘When you are under My world, leave your ego, pride and dignity: forget all about your manhood, being in control, having any power: come in complete surrender and bow in front of Me in total obedience. My Word is the law here, and disobedience will be punihsed harshly. You will suffer…I will enjoy it…’
If that doesn’t get your submissive jiuces flowing then I don’t know what would! Enjoy the read.
How did you first get into the world of kink, is it something that was always an interest?
I had fetishes since I can remember. I found out what BDSM is and that my fantasies are not unique rather late, when I was around 23 or 24.
How did you first get in being a Pro Domme, was it something that you always wanted to try, did it happen quite quickly after getting into kink?
I was a lifestyle Domina for about 5 years before I decided to do professional sessions, and this happened gradually. I still prefer D/s relationships over professional sessions.
What is your favourite thing about being a pro Domme?
Obviously, it’s nice to have a well paid hobby.
What was your worst/best previous job before being a Domme?
Assistant manager for 3 months. Being organised is not for Me.
How can a submissive contact you to arrange a session?
Nowadays I’m not seeing so many new submissives. I have some great collared slaves and I prefer to focus My attention on them, on their training and my relationships with them. In any case, I choose My new pets from My distance training slaves, so if you want to meet Me in person – you should start by joining My online training program.
What can a client expect from you in their first visit to see you?
My clips are quite popular, from them it’s easy to find out My preferences and My style before seeing Me in person.
Other than real time how can a submissive serve you? Do you do webcam or phone domination?
I mostly do online training (usually via email but sometimes via Skype). I put a great amount time and energy into maintaining a close relationship with My several collared slaves.
Are you looking for a personal sub?
I am always interested o in developing new fulfilling D/s relationships with high quality subs. But, from the first contact to becoming My personal slave, any sub must pass several important steps. I have a blog entry about My ideal household: http://mistressezada.com/polyandry-utopia-in-the-making/
Do you have your own personal website or websites? Which other social media sites do you like to use?
My personal website is www.MistressEzada.com. I am quite active on Fetlife and Twitter. I am aware there are many fake profiles impersonating Me out there, the best method to contact Me is by using the contact form on My website. I read and reply to all My emails personally.
Do you have a favourite piece of equipment/favourite toy?
The collar – because of its symbolism. I love My toys, especially My whips and restraints but I don’t really need anything other than My imagination and wicked mind.
What is your favourite fetish outfit to wear?
That’s obvious for everyone who knows Me even a little: classic leather outfit with over the knee high heel boots
What is your favourite type of play during a session, or favourite activities?
Control is what makes Me wet. Feeling My slave ready to do anything I want is My goal. The activities are not that important as long as I feel his willingness to serve Me.
What are the best qualities you look for in a sub? Is that different between a personal sub and one that books a session?
Obedience is what matters the most. And yes, there is a huge difference between My owned slaves and a client. And because of it, I always prefer to play with My personal slaves.
If you could give one piece of advice to a sub what would it be?
Think about what you are looking for and be open about it. Being owned is not for every sub. Owned slaves are not superior to sessions subs.
What are the top 3 mistakes you find a sub makes with you?
Selfishness – when they sexualy objectify Me/the Dominant woman, and write and think only about their fantasies like this is the only thing that matters. This never happened with My personal slaves, of course. And doesn’t happened very often lately.
Expectations – very often My slaves fall in love with Me. I find it normal, it doesn’t bother Me at all, as long as they understand that the love I have for them is not a romantic one. I am happily married with My personal slave and he offers Me the romantic intimacy I want to have with a man. I love My other pets very much, but in a different way. With one small exception, they understand the dynamic of My relationship with them.
I can’t think of a third mistake. I find most submissive boys very well educated and willing to please. I have zero interest in vanilla or dominant men. Subby boys are the best!
Do you have a different approach to male/female subs or crossdressers? Do you see female subs?
I usually play with males. I am not that much into cross dressers because I am too lazy to dress them up. I do enjoy playing with female slaves especially for feet worship.
As owner of the House of Sinn can I ask a few things about that? When did you start it and what made you want to do it, and what were your hopes for it from the start?
I started the House of Sinn project about a year ago. I am very happy where I am- My clip store is doing great being constantly in TOP50, I have 5 wonderful personal slaves that make My life happy and full, I travel extensively, all My goals have been achieved. It was time for another project.
House of Sinn House of Sinn started as a Femdom clips production project and Femdom event organizer. I have many ideas and I am sure most of them will become reality but I prefer not to talk about it at the moment. I am sure House of Sinn will become bigger and bigger with the support of My Lady friends, fans and slaves.
I know you are a believer in keeping your submissives in chastity, was chastity always an interest and could you explain what it is about it that you enjoy?
Control is what I am interested in and because men are so focused on their genitals, taking control over their sexuality means very often taking control over the man itself. I discovered very early how easy is to obtain what you want, as a woman, from a man who is aroused but not satisfied. So easy! Hahaha
Who would you most like to work with that you haven t had the opportunity to do so yet, or who would you love to work with again?
I had the chance to meet and film with many wonderful Dominas. I used to please Myself watching Madame Catarina’s and Sidonia von Bork’s clips. So using slaves together with them was a dream come true. They are both amazing Dominas and wonderful women.
I must mention the wonderful friendship I have with Madame Caramel and the wonderful filming sessions I had with Fetish Liza.
It would be nice to work in the future with Lexi Sindel and Mistress T.
What sort of music do you like to have for session?
Carlos Peron, Les salles
Where do you get your inspiration for sessions?
I usually do what feels natural. When the chemistry between Me and my sub is good, I am inspired.
What is your favourite BDSM or Kink website/blog?
If you could have one male and one female Celeb to be your sub for the day who would they be?
I have a fetish for famous actors/actreeses/directors. The idea of controling, teasing and denying a sex symbol wanted by many arouses Me the most. I would love to have someone very well known and pretty like James Franco or Leonardo DiCaprio as My slave for a day. As for the females, I find Portia de Rossi really hot!
What are some of you favourite things to do away from bdsm?
I love being lazy – staying in bed until late, reading a book/magazine for the whole day, staying away from the laptop and phone, eating in bed. Since My life became busier this is what I dream of the most.
Other than that I love to travel, to be with My human pets, to watch documentaries about science and history, to go to museums, to read.
JD x x