There has been a little bit of a gap since my last interview but I am delighted to be able to post this latest one with none other than the fabulous Mistress T. For those that don’t know (where the hell have you been hiding in the Femdom world) Mistress T is a Canadian Domme from Vancouver but travels a lot to both the US and to the UK. As a Pro Domme Mistress T both sessions and produces and stars in Clips from a range of Femdom topics including, humiliation of men, cuckolding, Mommy fetish, Giantess, ass worship, Goddess worship, foot/boot/pantyhose/glove fetish and a lot more.
I was lucky enough to meet Mistress T a few months ago and although very brief and very much unexpected it was an absolute pleasure. I have to say she is one of the most beautiful Dommes, actually one of the most beautiful women I have ever met, but if you have seen any of her videos or pictures you all would already know that!
I hope you enjoy the read and enjoy being able to have a little glimpse into the mind of someone who I consider to be an incredible Domme.
So that just leaves me to say a huge thank you to Mistress T for taking the time to answer my questions, so thank you it is very much appreciated. :)
How did you first get into the world of kink, is it something that was always an interest?
That’s a long complicated answer & a great story. I get asked so frequently that I originally created my blog to tell the story. If you’re really curious you can read my blog from the beginning, the first few entries tell the story: http://www.mistresst.net/blog/2011/06/
How did you first get in being a Pro Domme, was it something that you always wanted to try, did it happen quite quickly after getting into kink?
See above answer:-)
What is your favourite thing about being a pro Domme?
I love seeing people express intimate parts of themselves. I don’t just mean their private parts but their inner desires, kinks, & cravings.
What was your worst/best previous job before being a Domme?
I had a few mainstream sales & marketing jobs that were pretty boring: office furniture, computer software, advertising space. That wasn’t great. One of my favourite jobs was working in a coffee shop when I was a teenager. There were a lot of friendly regular customers & I liked my boss & coworkers. It was low-stress & fun.
How can a submissive contact you to arrange a session?
By email: MsT@MistressT.net
What can a client expect from you in their first visit to see you?
In terms of specific activities he can expect what we’re discussed & agreed to. He can also expect to feel safe with me.
Other that real time how can a submissive serve you? Do you do anything other than real time?
I actually very rarely see clients in person these days. My focus is on video production & work/life balance. Therefore I have limited availability for online/webcam/email training. To be frank, for both personal & online those who are the most generous & politely persistent get my attention.
Are you looking for a personal sub?
I’m not looking for a personal sub. I wouldn’t shut the door on the possibility that the right low-maintence slave might be out there, one with the right attitude/impeccable manners & enough to offer me to make it worth my while…but he would pretty much have to be a unicorn.
I know you have a very successful website and I personally really enjoy reading your blog, how long have you been running them and do you have any other sites you use?
I launched my members site in 2008 & my blog in 2011.
Members site: http://www.MistressT.net
Do you have a favourite piece of equipment/favourite toy and do you have a favourite type of play or activity?
I love chastity devices :-)
I love orgasm control. I love edging, denying him an orgasm, ruining his orgasm or eventually allowing him a release after prolonged denial & edging. I also love ballbusting when a guy can really take it.
What is your favourite fetish outfit to wear?
I have a leather top from Northbound leather that’s sexy & comfortable…& I love leather gloves.
What are the best qualities you look for in a sub?
Excellent manners, respect & patience.
If you could give one piece of advice to a sub what would it be?
Communicate clearly but briefly. The mistakes that subs often make is showing poor communication, being demanding and being cheap.
How do you prepare for a session or a scene to get into Domme headspace? Do you have to?
I just take a moment to be still & calm. To reflect on what has been discussed prior to the session.
I first saw you online on The English Mansion, and I know you do quite a bit of filming with them, how did that come about? and how often do you visit the UK?
I am very grateful for the opportunity to work with The English Mansion. It started a number of years ago when they were looking for someone from abroad to feature as the VIP guest for their FemDom ball. At that time I had been consistently in clips4sale’s top 10 for a couple of years & was gaining popularity. They liked my style & thought I would be a good fit for their site. I have been over a number of times to film in the last several years. I love the UK & hope to be back soon. Stay tuned on my blog for travel announcements.
I know you do a lot of videos for you site and clip stores, how does that compare to sessioning in real time?
It’s very different. When I film the focus is mostly directed to the camera. It is a performance with the male (if there is one there) as a prop. In a session it is a dance between the client & I. It is more intimate for the client than filming.
Where do you get your inspiration for sessions or videos?
It’s a collaboration between my own creative mind & feedback/requests from fans & things that have happened with real slaves.
If you could have one male and one female Celeb to be your sub for the day who would they be?
If I could have Stephen Harper (Canada’s recent ex Prime Minister) for one day I would happily discipline him for the mess he’s made of Canada in the last decade. A celeb as a sexy sub: Johnny Depp.
What are some of you favourite things to do away from bdsm?
Yoga, eating healthy delicious food with good friends, going to the spa or natural hot springs/being in nature, reading, making love, seeing live music, road trips.
JD x x