Engish Mansion -A very Latexy Affair

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I have been neglecting this blog in recent weeks and months and that is partly because lots of things have been happening in my personal life that I don’t want to talk about on here, I even considered stopping the blog for a while but the ‘good’ news is I have decided against that. The even better news is, I’m back with a post all about my recent trip to the best kink place I know of, aka The English Mansion, allow me to elaborate.

A few weeks ago I headed over to English Mansion to do a bit of filming with them for the first time about a year. I knew it was going to be a latex heavy filming day and I knew it would be Zara DuRose I would be filming with, so of course I was excited. Many of you will know just how good Zara looks in latex from her many pics and videos and its safe to say she looks even better in person, shes one of those people that it seems latex was just made for. I on the other head rarely get the chance to get fully suited and booted in latex but every time I do is a huge amount of fun, and this was not exception! As well as Zara being there, I was also looking forward to seeing a long term friend of mine Jade (@MissJadeJones) and seeing her do her thing on camera (pure filth, she makes me look very sweet and innocent!) and was very much looking forward to seeing Dominant Dolly and Mistress Sidonia, so you get the idea, I was excited!

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In fact, I have been trying to think about how to get across just how much I enjoy being at the English Mansion. I have been lucky enough to to film with them a few times now and every time it is just a fantastic experience. Its not just about the filming as well, its everything from the time I arrive to getting out the hot tub at the day of the day and heading home. Actually, I think sometimes they must be close to kicking me out the door at the end of the day as I never want to leave. But at the risk of getting too soppy lets go back to the filming!

Zara had already filmed with Jade and with Dominant Dolly before we did our scene so I had had plenty of time to get ready or should I say I had plenty of time for others to help me get ready. The scene I did with Zara was great fun, as I mentioned before it involved lots of latex and as well as that there was bondage, caning, butt plugs, chastity, and me serving drinks in a more ‘challenging’ way than normal plus a little bit of boot worship. not a bad way to spend a sunny Thursday afternoon I am sure you would agree.

I am not going to go into all the details about what happened, The videos should be released later in the year on The English Mansion website so you can go see for yourself then. Plus the pictures here show a great little tease for the video, so stop being greedy and be patient haha.

One thing I will say though is that this was one of the few times I have done any form of predicament bondage and although it was quite mild compared to a lot of things I have seen before, it was a great introduction and something I would really like to do more of (Not that I would dream of hinting at all to you Mistress Sidonia if you are reading this….) It always feels good to be pushed in certain ways and I can see the appeal of being pushed with this for sure now.

After I finished my bit of filming Zara, Jade and Dominant Dolly did an incredibly hot scene together while I got to sit back and watch the action live with a front row seat. This was the first time I had seen Dominant Dolly in full Domme mode and I have to say wow she does look fantastic, and I am not jealous at all…..haha! Actually Dominant Dolly looked great, Zara looked great and Jade looked great. I cannot wait to see this clip when it gets released, very fucking hot (see what I did there), I recommend it to all!!

After the last scene and the day was done we finished off with a dip in the hot tub, the perfect way to end a great days filming

That just leaves me to say a  huge thank you to the English Mansion guys, to Zara Du Rose and to Jade, I had a great day as always and am looking forward to the next time I might be lucky enough to do it again

JD x x

Birmingham Weekend Part one – Party

Last week I was lucky enough to be invited to Birmingham with Vivienne and spend a few days there having fun and generally getting up to some good old fashioned filthy kink!

We were far from on our own as Esmerelda and Sammie were also there and we were having a kinky, anything goes type party in an apartment on the Friday night. A couple of people turned up for the party and I think it is safe to say everyone enjoyed themselves. Mistress Inka unfortunately arrived right near the end of the night due to traffic problems and the fact that Edinburgh is a long fucking way from Birmingham! Saying that I think she still got to have a bit of a play with Esmerelda and give her a few marks to remember her by. For someone as cute asEsmerelda, and trust me she very cute, that girl can take a hell of a lot of CP!!

So by 7pm ish everyone was dressed up and looking good, make up was (mostly) done, the wine was open and everyone was in the mood for play.

I personally got to give more than I took from a spanking side of things which I was more than happy with as I gave one of the crossdressers what turned out to be a lengthy spanking over the knee which was fun, but I have to say I don’t think anything I did was enough for him the cheeky girl always wanting more, they would not have got away with that with Vivienne haha. Still the spanking was fun and I am pretty sure she enjoyed it as well.

I also got to give Esmerelda a spanking/flogging and paddling which I have to admit I had been wanting to do all evening, or actually from the day before. That was a huge amount of fun doing an over the knee spanking,until she bit my leg for being apparently too mean, In fairness she did warn me but I didnt think she would actually do it, and I thought I could be bratty!!!

So what else did people get up to, well I don’t think I saw everything but I know Esmerelda had lots of fun with one of the guys, I played a bit with Sammie, or more accurately Sammie played with me, Viv and Sammi definitely had some fun together, plus a whole load of other things.

The night sort of natural wound down as these things tend to do and the guys went home leaving Vivienne, Mistress Inka, Esmerelda, Sammi and myself to chill out before another busy day the next day. It was to be a day of filming and never has a day of filming taken so much out of me emotionally and physically, but we will get to that in part two….

Knowone really took any pictures on the night which was a bit of a shame but I did (obviously) take some selfies once ready so this is the best I can often in terms of pictures of the party im afraid.

JD x x

 

Filming in the Sunshine at Cate Fury’s

The other week I headed over to Cate Fury’s to do some filming with herself Nikki Whiplash and Chloe Lovette. This was the first time I had been to Cate’s new place and I have to say I loved it. It feels like a beautiful little gem hidden away in the countryside, surrorunded the great outdoors. To be honest I couldn’t actually tell you where it was even if I wanted to, other than past a field of cows and over a cattle gird! Either way the trusty Sat Nav never fails and I arrived just before the first scene was about to start.

The filming was for Cate’s soon to be launched brand new clip store (keep an eye out for this!) and there where afew subs there on the day for filming to cover a wide range od different kinks. It was good to see Nadders again in the flesh and if you know who he is you should not be surprised that there was a few ball busting clips being filmed that day! As well as the ball busting there was some trampling, strap on and playing with a vac bed. I wasnt involved in them but still very much enjoyed wathcing them from the other side of the camera.

Once the first clip was finished Cate gave me a hand with my make up, and by gave me a hand, I do of course mean Cate pretty much did my make up and I have to say I thought it looked great. Once that was done and I was dressed (yes I was the last to be ready again) we headed outside to do the first of the two clips I was involved in on the day. This clip was a bit of a mix of things, there was a guy being human furniture, a guy being the ladies ash tray and I basically got to worship and kiss Cate’s boots, I personally thing I got the best job there! lots of fun.

The next clip being filmed was a ball busting clip so obviously I ran away and watched from the behind a wall in Cate’s garden. There is something fasinating about watching something that I know I couldn’t do or wouldn’t want to do, or a mixture of both. I have so much respect for the subs that do these it must hurt like hell! Saying that though you could clearly tell the guy getting kicked was enjoying it, it seemed that it was a case of the harder the kick the harder the.., well you know, the guy😉

The second clip I filmed was a caning clip, again we did it outside and after a bit of a warm up with a paddle ( I think ), all three took it in turns to give me a caning. I have never been caned by different people so close together and I was amazed when Cate told me that they used the same cane because each felt very different, I could have sworn they were different canes, he only thing in  common was that they all hurt!

After a little bit of a chill out, a chat and a cup of tea it was time to hit the road again with a glowing red bum after a really fun day spend at Cate Fury’s. Don’t forget to keep an eye out for Cate’s new clip store when it gets released and ofcourse go check out me being caned by three beautiful Dominant ladies!

JD x x

Interview with Mistress Inka

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My latest of my interviews with a Domme is with the Scottish beauty Mistress Inka. For those of you that don’t know, Mistress Inka is a Professional Domme based in Edinburgh with her own Dungeon playspace just minutes from the very heart of the city call Original Sin. Mistress Inka has years of experience and has interests in a wide varity of aspects of BDSM. Also did I mention that Scottish accent is to die for!

I hope you enoy the read

  • How did you first get into the world of kink, is it something that was always an interest?

I first got into the world of kink through an ex partner, we would often hire submissive working girls to ‘play with’, in the beginning I was submissive to him, but quickly realised I should be at the other side of the whip.

  • How did you first get in being a Pro Domme, was it something that you always wanted to try, did it happen quite quickly after getting into kink?

I used to be an Art Lecture for 8 years, however, decided to take voluntary severance. I had already been doing pro Domme sessions now and again so it just seemed like the next step.

  • What is your favourite thing about being a pro Domme?

I firstly love the amount of freedom and creativity I experience, self employment suits me well, I feel in control, not just over men, but in my whole destiny, I can work hard and shape my own future, opportunity’s in further education after the credit crunch were minimal and very depressing.

  • What was your worst/best previous job before being a Domme?

Oh God! I have had so many shit jobs! I have always worked, learnt quickly you get nothing for free. One of the worst was working on a melon farm in Australia, the men used to take over ripped melons home for some good lovin’ at the end of there shift. since then I have done this to slaves ha ha! funny where you pick up tips.

  • How can a submissive contact you to arrange a session?

Subs can contact me by email, miss.inka@icloud.com through my website, adult work, twitter….I am out there to be found.

  • What can a client expect from you in their first visit to see you?

A client can expect someone who actually cares about about their needs too, there is nothing worse for me feeling like the session has not gone to plan, I like a feeling of job satisfaction ha ha!

  • Other that real time how can a submissive serve you? Do you do webcam or phone domination?

I don’t do much online stuff, I much prefer to get my hands on them. However, plan to expand once my son becomes less needy, that might take a while since he’s male!

  • Are you looking for a personal sub?

    I have had/have personals, however, they are all pretty rubbish. I need a mute, rich, unemployed cleaning obsessive with gifted masseur hands and is a wiz with IT. Please apply.

 

  • What are the best qualities you look for in a sub? Is that different between a personal sub and one that books a session?

Be clean, bring a little something and shut the fuck up! then we are off to a good start.

  • What are the top 3 mistakes you find a sub makes with you?

I’m not a mind reader

I am not doing charity based work or free counselling service.

I’m not sitting about in full latex morning to night waiting for your call.

  • Do you have a different approach to male/female subs or crossdressers? Do you see female subs?

    I see everybody and everyone is treated the same, I am pretty equal when it comes to torture ha ha!

  • I know from personal eperience picking a name to use in the world of kink often has a story behind it, is there a reason behind the choice of the name Mistress Inka?

    I am named after an artist, I saw her name up in a gallery years ago and thought wow inka, what a cool name. her work is fab too, Inka Essenhigh. 

  • Living and working in Edinburgh but often travelling down to london, do you think the bdsm scene in Edinburgh/Scotland is a good one and do you think it differs from the one in London?

Its a small scene in Edinburgh, Glasgow has a much bigger scene, although Miss Marilyn and myself have been doing a good job bringing kink to the capital, we now have the only rentable dungeon that I know off in the city and for that reason we are now seeing some of the big names in FemDomme coming to wee Scotland.

It is hard for us to get work in London, everyone is a bloody Domme down there.

  • What is your favourite BDSM or Kink website/blog

I have to say I love twitter, I enjoy watching, learning, admiring other ladies work. Some truly inspiring ladies and gents out there. Dirty bastards.

  • If you could have one male and one female Celeb to be your sub for the day who would they be?

Alex from tess of the d’urbervilles, crispin glover and too many hot girls that would look good with mascara tears to choose!

  • What are some of you favourite things to do away from bdsm?

I love spending time with my son, eating and drinking fine food and wines, making art and lying around in the sun. bliss.

JD x x

Edinburgh Road Trip with Vivienne

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Not too long along Vivienne and I headed up to Edinburgh for a long weekend filled with fun and frolics. Vivenne has in the last few months been making the trip up to Edinburgh once a month to session from ‘Original Sin’ dungeon in the heart of the city and I was lucky enough to join her this time. As soon as Viv asked if I would like to join her I obviously said yes and was really looking forward to spending some time with her, seeing her do her thing in session and even taking part in some of the sessions. All of which I am happy to say happened and all of which were great fun.

We headed up on the long drive early on Saturday morning and arrived mid afternoon at the dungeon. After a very quick change from both of us (it is fair to say doing make up in a dark dungeon is not my speciality) we were straight into a session. This first session was one I was to be involved in with a very nice guy who enjoyed being transformed into a sissy as well as having a thing for needles. Now I think I should explain something here, I am scared of needles. I have very few hard limits when I am sub now but needles still remains on that list.I was told it was very different doing the sticking  (for want of a better word) to being stuck so although nervous about it I was happy (mostly) to give it a go.

As this was a session with someone else I am not going to go into all the details but I learnt quite a bit and it was a bit of an eye opener in a good way. I enjoyed it and even the needles part was ok, infact even the needles part was a lot of fun! It is also safe to say I never thought I would be able to say that this one time in Edinburgh I pierced someones nipple, turns out I can now!

Photo 28-05-2016, 18 31 24For most of the rest of the day Vivenne was busy with sessions in which I was not needed to be around (She is VERY popular in Edinburgh!) so I spend the day wondering around the city, drinking coffee and then watching the football which the occassion trip back to the dungeon inbetween sessions to bring Viv some much needed supplies! Edinburgh is a beautiful city, makes me glad Viv doesn’t do tours somewhere like Hull or Swindon……no offence….

The next day followed a similar pattern with Vivienne busy with sessions and me being involved in a few. I did get to see Vivienne use her brand new tawse on a guy and it has to be said I was very impressed how well he took it. One of the highlights of the weekend was that it was the first time I had seen Vivienne in  session with a sub. I mean obviously we have done a lot together and we have filmed etc but it was really enjoyable to see Vivienne in full swing (pun intended) doing her thing, she really is very very good at it!

We took a break from the dungeon in the afternoon and spend a great afternoon at the beach which was a lot of fun and much needed for Viv I think as she had only really seen the four walls of the dungeon for the last two days.

We then returned for the last session of the weekend with a very nice guy Vivienne had seen before and again it was one I was involved with. I think for most of it I was more like Vivienne’s ‘beautiful’ assistant fetching toys or cuffs etc which she tied him up and got him to do a few other things. Things got a bit more hands on towards the end and Vivienne got me to put on a show for them both using a toy at one stage. This was a lot of fun and no surprises to hear I don’t mind an audience but when Vivienne told me to use the toy as he told me to, I quickly discovered that is not something I enjoy, but I guess you don’t know until you try. Overall though it really was a fun session to be involved in!

On the return back to Derby we stopped overnight at Governess Ely’s for a little femdom party. It had been a long time since seeing Ely so was great to catch up and see her new place. The party itself was with Miss Mog, Governess Ely , Vivienne l’Amour and Lady Rebecca and I did get a bit of a spanking/caning/tawsing (is that a word) from them. I also got to see Vivienne using her whip on a sub which was great and something I would love to see again but for me the most enjoyable part was being able to have a little catch up with Ely.

Me and Viv then headed back to Derby with Miss Mog to end another really great weekend.

JD x x

 

 

Jessica Switches…?

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If you follow this blog then this post might come as a bit of shock to you, although if you really do know me then it really might not.

Recently I have been having these urges to explore again, this need to try things and excitement thinking about new and unexplored experiences. These sorts of feelings have felt quite similar to how I felt when first exploring kink in general (although I am much older and wiser now….). Just like 4 or 5 years ago there is a overwhelming urge to act on them, but this time the feelings have been of the dominant nature.

Well thats the background to things out the way, now on to the juicy middle. During a weekend at Viv’s a few weeks ago I got to explore these dominant feelings and first things first I want to thank Vivienne for enabling me to do so and suggesting I try being Domme with her other sub Sammie. I also want to thank Sammie for letting someone with very limited experience at this take control!

So to start with Vivienne showed me where some of the things were kept and gave me a few ideas on what to do, I think she sensed the nerves and hesitation to begin with. She then said she would like to take pictures as we played but would not be get involved to see how it panned out. She also told me she thought I would be fine and she was confidence I knew what I was doing. At the point I will admit it was both exciting and slightly daunting.

Now I am used to being in a dungeon and I think I know what pretty much everything is used for, and have had a lot of things used on me, but this was the first time where I have stood in a dungeon with someone waiting for me to tell them what to do. It was the first time that it was completely my decision what to use, what to do and how to do it and I have to admit although there were nerves, I really enjoyed that feeling!

I started off with Sammie being in the very lucky position of being told to worship my feet for a while but I had already decided that it was mainly hitty things that I wanted to use. This was probably partly because as a sub I have a lot of experience with them. I understand how all of them feel and understand the difference between the ‘ouch but please don’t stop’,the ‘oh my fucking god that hurts please don’t do that again, ok maybe once more’ and the ‘I can’t take much more’ type of pain. I knew Sammie hadn’t done much pain play with Vivienne so I was very kind, to start with….. We played with a crop, a cane and a few other things, I had Sammie tied up in some very simple ways and had Sammie sucking on a few toys after hearing she liked things in her mouth. During all the pain play I kept Sammie counting the hits and giving me pain ratings out of 10 which I think worked well and was actually just as much for my benifit as it was for Sammie’s as it alouded me to quickly work out what was ‘soft’ what was ‘hard’ and what was ‘very hard’ (Vivienne later used a similar thing with me but to a far more extreme way, but have patience, we will get to that later).

I really did feel like I grew into the session as it went on and the confidence lacking at the start only increased throughout. At the beginning I found myself looking over to Viv after doing something, kind of hoping for approval that is was ok I guess. After about 5 or 10 mintues this stopped, I stopped thinking about if I was doing it right, what ever that means, and just started to enjoy it. After that the session went really quickly and I kinda of didn’t want it to stop,  I know Viv enjoyed watching, I’m pretty saw Sammie enjoyed it and I sure as hell enjoyed it. Now I can’t wait to do it again, I think it has only made me more curious about wanting to try new things, and you know what, that is really very fucking exciting!

The next day though Vivienne decided to remind me of my place, and that place is very much happily submissive to Goddess Vivienne. This involved amongst other things, one hell of a caning! I am not going to go into any detail about what we did other than the caning itself and the fact that this was by far the most intense pain I have ever been able to take. Vivienne used the number game I played with Sammie the day before but with a twist, with Sammie I ended the session by saying when you have recieved one number 10 on the pain scale I will stop, with Vivienne we ended with 1 hit at 1, 2 at 2, 3 and 3 etc etc all the way up to 10 at 10.

If you have been reading this blog recently you will know this isn’t the first time Vivienne has pushed my limits and it excites me every time she does, I love that she is doing that. We are also getting to know each other more and more and it surprises me how well she can read me and work out what I am thinking. I am starting to be able to do the same with her now and there is a moment when Vivienne is giving out CP where she switches slightly, there is a slight change of expression and I really can see it in her eyes, its almost a more raw powerful energy she has. I know at that point she is really enjoying herself. It is that point that is my favourite time of any CP play we have done and its largely that stuble change and hightened enjoyment I sense from her that makes me want to carry on and allows me to take more. Saying that though I do still stuggle sometimes and find it difficult to really let go emotionally and as a submissive (but im learning). I really felt like I did do both of them this time thought and it felt great. It was exactly what I needed and reminded me that although these new dominant feelings are really exciting, being submissive to Vivienne tops the lot.

After the caning and when Vivienne had untied me, I was in tears, laying on the floor, hugging Vivienne’s leg with my head in her lap when she asked me two questions, both of which had the same reply.

‘To whom do you belong Jessica’

‘To you Goddess’

‘To whom do you belong *insert boy name*’

‘To you Goddess’

Through the tears a huge smile slowly spread across my face, I hadn’t been this happy for a long long time. I have never given myself to someone like that before and all I remember thinking was that I didn’t want to be anywhere else, I didnt want that moment to end.

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JD x x

‘None kink’ ish Photoshoot

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Not too long ago I was asked if I would be interested in doing a photo shoot in Bristol. As you probably know by now I quite like the camera so was always likely to say yes but this one was slightly different though. It wasn’t Femdom, it wasn’t even BDSM based, although we did some kink type pics, in fact more than originally planned I think, (can’t take the kink out of me!). The photo shoot was with ‘Jerryandtom‘ from tvchix or Jenny as I now know her. Jenny and her partner Amanda run a make over and photo shoot service for trans girls, cross dressers, tgirl etc and thats exactly what I did with them. I had my make up done and then we did some photos.

I arrived on a midweek evening after work and after picking a couple of outfits I might wear Jenny was then ready to do my make up. Jenny is quite skilled with her make up and showed me a few little tricks than have come in useful since. I have always enjoyed having my make up done and Jenny was not only very good at it but also is very relaxed and likes to have fun which is something we have in common, I would imagine she would find it very easy to put people that may be nervous at ease and get them smiling!

Once the make up was done it was time to actually make a decision on what to wear and jump infront of the camera! We did a few different types of pictures, some of me on my own, some with me and Jenny, some kink based and some far from it. I have to admit I am not used to doing photos where it is just me in front of the camera and if its something I might do again I think I have a lot to learn!

A highlight for me was the technique Jenny uses to get people to try different poses, I thought it was a fantastic idea and although slightly embarassing at times and almost impossible to actually do the whole thing, it was a lot of fun and had us both laughing. This bit comes highly recommended, but you will have to speak to Jenny herself to find out exactly what it is😛

Both Jenny and Amanda are really lovely people and  made me feel very welcome, Jenny really made the whole thing a lot of fun and her relaxed and cheeky attitude really would put anyone at ease. If you are a cross dresser reading this and have considered going to have a make over or photo shoot I would reccommend Jenny and Amanda, I know you would have fun and enjoy it! If nerves have stopped you in the past then maybe Jenny and Amanda are the perfect match for you, they will have you dolled up, in front of the camera smiling in no time.

JD x x